He says he hasn't loved me for the last 2 years and was only staying for the sake of the kids. I knew a guy who joined the Mormon church because he thought it would help him date a certain Mormon girl, a girl who refused to date non-Mormons. She may have served a mission as an ultimatum to herself. While there are some differences noted here, in many ways you should treat them the same way you would girls of other faiths. I have been married to an er doctor for almost 19 years. In our church, women are treated with more respect, and are considered to have a literal free ticket to heaven, simply bu because their female. Eventually it turned into a sour argument. I don't know if living vicariously through him will be enough. You need to do something interesting and keep her faith up.
Thanks so much for the links. My seminary teacher went off on me about dating a non Mormon when I was talking about going to his prom. They value femininity, motherhood, and masculinity in men. Everyone has their own sins and impure thoughts they need to overcome. She won't look at anything "anti-mormon" but if it's on LDS.
I do think this girl is a keeper, and I'm more than willing to tolerate, be patient and live with the crazy schedule. Think of every possible scenario you can think of. I wish you the best.
Before that, you are encouraged to date, but not exclusively. You must either really love blue balls, or else she is not a real deal Mormon girl. Pay for the first few dates.