Well if she knew or ever found out, in her eyes you'll be a loathsome perverted deviant in need of sex addiction counseling. In fact, you likely will meet a few. Raising our children as believers is proving to be very tricky. Would she be okay spending a Sunday to an atheist space with you. You will be expected to condone but not attend events in the temple to which you will not be granted access. My husband and I have been married for about 4 years and together since we were undergrads, before he chose medicine as his profession. This can make it harder for you two to do things together. You have to come second right now. Thanks for sharing your experiences. She's willing to talk about anything I find directly on LDS.
I still love my Heavenly Father and my Savior. All people see is the money and that's it. This does not mean that you cannot do those things, but remember that she will not be able to do them with you. It gets better towards the later part of the whole deal, but it's always going to be kind of crazy busy. I feel unwanted most of the time but I know he tries to make time.
Should I consider giving up my PhD plans, take up whatever job I can based on my commitments or I should look for somebody with whom my profession is more compatible. I think she felt that it was important for me to understand the types of challenges in an interfaith marriage. The Mormon university BYU is quickly falling due to these feminists. It's satire, but this is all stuff you may hear at Thanksgiving dinner. In any case; I can assure you from your post that he doesn't sound like he's being selfish; the behavior does sound like its residency related and not selfishness related. Although with the change in times, people may not follow these rules as stringently as before, it is still better to be careful so as to not offend anyone, and you may possibly land up with the love of your life. It seems she'll expect you to become Mormon. If he says he wants to keep things casual, head for the hills - he's the latter and he doesn't appreciate you.
You have to come second right now. No where did I say, nor I think indicate, that I thought this wasn't a complex issue, or that this girl is a caricature. I was actually just talking to my husband about that the other day, at first he said that it depressed him when I said that, but really, it helps. Except his wife was and still is a witch. We raised 2 wonderful children who are now happy and successful adults. Never marry someone with the goal of a post-marriage conversion. I was recently married to my husband in the Twin Falls, Idaho temple for time and all eternity. I wouldn't just give up, but be wary.