She has opened my eyes to many parts of our national culture that are not in harmony with righteousness. She asked me the other night how it's possible for me to be such a good person when I don't believe in god. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the other ones out there. I have no idea if he stayed. He admitted then that there had been another short sexual liaison with a nurse prior to that. Well the pieces will all fall into place. Among Mormons, 25 is practically an old maid. I don't think people really understand how lonely it can get, unless you are married to one. But the idea of marrying my husband felt right from almost the get-go and, my patriarchal blessing made so much more sense.
Eventually I hope each wards get to a point where they know that as a ward family our job is simply to make sure that each person, member or non member knows that when they enter the house of the Lord, they are loved. Loneliness seems to be a part of being a wife of a doc in training, and at times all I can think of is simply getting over a day at a time. Mormons have separate congregations for young single adults, which is very convenient.
God loves every last one of us, regardless of religious affiliation. What a fascinating response as always. It really has been helpful.
Before I met my husband I had dated quite a few members and some relationships were quite serious but I never felt right about it. I forgot to add, that if you marry and alow your children to be raised as Mormon, chances are you wont be able to be at their wedding because it will be in the temple. Marriage is serious business and we are in it together despite our spouses shortcomings. I am a nurse and have been for 10 years. Play with fire if you don't fear getting burned. I think she sounds great but she won't be able to not bring it up. But I could make it very romantic indeed.