It won't be easy. Finally, the decision of whom you marry is really between you and God. Certainly there are such people in the church, but there are such people in any organization, and I would challenge you to remember that the members are also individuals with thoughts, feelings and the ability to rebel in their own ways. I believe in temple marriage, and in the importance of those covenants. Honestly, the bulk of what I did was pretty routine and uninteresting.
Due to the very long hours away from me and our children, my husband spends alot of his free time on the internet. I am 27, LDS, and 5 days away from marrying my own amazing non-Mormon man. They even refrain from tea and coffee. If you can't do that, realizing that your partner may never come around to your side of things, you are not ready to marry this person. But it also means he has ultimate responsibility for his patients, both ethically and legally. Maybe he found a nice Mormon girl after all.
Then you might want to talk about all the things her church requires. I have learned this painfully with my child growing up in the LDS community. The Holy Ghost will testify that it is true. I am very independent and have my own life my own career and do not need my partner to be with me all the time. You will always be second place.
What do you do while they are away. Mormonism is a religion that's as manipulative as it is comforting. Yes, because that is generally what is best. There are other occasions for humor, but these two are off the table. It's pretty rough waking up to drive home that early and then trying to go back to sleep again for just a little bit before getting up again for work. If you end up marrying a true believing Mormon, your marriage will be a threesome. As for the Mormon cohort he will be exposed to, I have two thoughts: And so far as I could tell, it worked and no one tried to drag her husband into the church. I know after residency he would choose a flexible job which would allow for the most family time. After you read the CES letter Im pretty sure you will be grossed out by mormonism. He had no idea what he was getting himself into.