Hence the suspicious quotes around "adequately. You will get to mingle with a lot of new people, and who knows, maybe you will also find the guy or girl of your dreams there. The important thing is doing it together. But he told me that he needs a wife who could take care of him, kids and house.
If you talk to him about it, and he cares about your relationship enough, the two of you will probably be able to find something that works for both of you. But if you are with someone who is plainly selfish or dishonest or mean, then don't let them use their occupation as an excuse. Much good luck, and keep us in the loop. Too often, I think, priesthood holders think that being overly controlling, they are simply wielding their authority in the home. He did not like the idea of early morning seminary and he told me I was old enough to make my own choice to serve a mission, but he strongly advised against it. Don't expect a traditional marriage I am sorry for your story. The church is really good at putting on a happy, wholesome face to show the world, but if you look behind the curtain, you see that it's a despicable cult.
Welcome to TwoXChromosomes, a subreddit for both serious and silly content, and intended for women's perspectives. Marriage does weird things to Mormons You're correct, that he should ask her these things would you marry a non Mormon. She got engaged 3 months later. A good place to go is to a museum, hiking, or to a park. Religion is super important to LDS people but there's also alot of exmormons.