It does kick your butt!. Everyday he asks me, "What are you doing tonight. I think Bob, the answer can be found in your comment. To find another job, a more family oriented one, move to another more financially friendly state we are in California and have a fresh start. If you can't do that, realizing that your partner may never come around to your side of things, you are not ready to marry this person. Do you believe in the Gospel as taught by the Church. It is not something that should be taken lightly. The church really needs to tailor to more partial LDS families, imho. I was thinking about this last night after listening to Radio West. I feel you on the loneliness.
That question really put things into perspective for me, so thank you. I know that sounds cold but if you train under stress for that many years and become a member of a masochistic not the sexual context fraternity like that of surgical residents, then you more easily shut out anything that might break down those walls. I can deal with the hours its when he comes home and is so burnt out it kills me. His pager will become your most despised enemy. We're generally very happy when we're together, but like everyone else, it isn't always easy to find the time between his schedule and mine. I was spiritually prepared to receive the answer that I sought. Say goodbye to all that. Blogroll By Common Consent C. I say to you, decisions determine destiny.
They are not God. It is also considered disrespectful to others, as they may be uncomfortable because of your open displays. Make an honest effort, and see if you reach the walk-away point. When mormon married a mormon and failed miserably. Your attempts at being funny or lightening the mood may backfire, and your date may be put off. I have had more than one girl, who I had definite chemsitry with, who the girl really liked me and we had deep and intense conversations as well as a real physichal connection to. We need to come to a decision pretty soon and I really need some insight.
Not having expectations, as others mentioned, is also key to reducing feelings of frustration. I'm engaged to a med student we met in undergrad 2 years ago and I've watched him go from playful college kid to serious med student. I have been dating a doctor for over two years now and we have talked about marriage, as well as some of the challenges his job will entail. I ran across your post out of desperation.