I stand with my eyes closed, feeling awkward as Lisa lifts off my baggy T-shirt and peels down my underwear while breathing heavily on my neck. I must admit I was curious and confused all at once but my overriding feeling was I had to give it a try. The idea of the massage is to release physical and emotional blockages and free sexual energy to enable the recipient to become more in tune with her body.
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With attitudes in modern Britain changing fast, sensual massage is increasingly becoming recognised as one of the most pleasurable healthy treatments a person can experience. Not only is it extremely pleasurable and self-caring but also does wonders for alleviating stress, anxiety and enhances well being. Yes, it is similar to tantric massage in that it is an intentionally arousing massage but it is given with a humanistic approach that does not include any ceremony or ritual but is focussed on the natural process of arousal of the body and combined with therapeutic benefits of regular massage. It gradually develops from a traditional massage to a sensual massage building to erotic touch. Be sure to learn more about the difference between tantric massage and sensual massage. Yes, taking a sensual massage is erotic in the sense it uses erotic arousal to relax and enhance the pleasure of letting go. The massage is given as an intimate therapeutic treatment rather than a sexual encounter.
Erotic massage is the use of massage techniques by one person on another person's erogenous zones for their sexual pleasure. The process may achieve or enhance the recipient's sexual excitation or arousal and sometimes achieve orgasm. The person providing the massage is called a masseur male or masseuse female. Massages have been used for medical purposes for a very long time, and their use for erotic purposes also has a long history. In the case of women, the two focal areas are the breasts and pubis , while in case of men, the focal area is the male genitals. When the massage is of a partner's genitals , the act is usually referred to as a handjob in the case of men and fingering in the case of women. Today, erotic massage is used by some people on occasion as a part of sex, either as foreplay or as the final sex act , or as part of sex therapy. There is also a large commercial erotic massage industry in some countries and cities. An erotic and sexual massage may be provided by independent providers, providers of broader sexual services, through erotic massage agencies, organized massage parlors or brothels.
Skip navigation! Story from Sex. Sophie Saint Thomas. Sometimes, getting a nice, long massage from your partner can feel better than sex. Luckily, you can have both. Giving your partner a massage yes, it's important to give as well as receive is not only an act of love and kindness, but it's the ultimate foreplay.