The way he wanted to live his life, the family he wanted to have, the wife he dreamt of- matched the type of person I longed for. He is always on call, too stressed, too tired etc etc. But that parent-child relationship was bound to change anyways as you become an adult. Anyone with experience dating a doctor or another insanely busy person.
What a bozza topic. Make sure the girl you like is already 16 years old. Learn all you can. Mastering the alone time has started to become an art for me I can only imagine how you must feel after doing it for so many more years: I am so glad I found your blog today. At parties, they drink soda and play board games. The extent of other physical activity depends on what you both want from the relationship, though in general the Mormon Church frowns on sexual contact even beyond intercourse. He has no vices, is the happiest person I know, is a healthy role model of manhood for my teen daughter and loves me to the depth of his soul.
Don't think it's just women married to male physicians who suffer. I did in college, and knew I would play 2nd fiddle to the lifelong dream. With me it's less about taking my time and more about the mental drain.
I am a happily married mono-faith guy who has no testimony of dusted base boards. He just started studying for the boards. I have only been living with him for a month. But she probably is more in love with the idea of you, than with you. It was not just frustrating but also saddening and stressful.