It sucks but ultimately what Mormonism does to people is it makes them value adherence to church more than their relationships with people. He believes in God, but also believes that God is everywhere, and therefore does not need to be worshipped in a specific place of worship with specific prayers. Yes, because that is generally what is best. Earlier I mentioned "Even if the church believes a bunch of crazy nonsense, and she believes it too, I still really like her and would like to see whether we can have some good intellectual conversations about this stuff. Or get them met elsewhere. I forgot to mention that we've only been dating for 6 mo. Today, at my ward sacrament meeting, in the back section of the chapel where I was sitting, all the women except one were Mormon wives in interfaith families. A lot of Mormons escape that pitfall and can put people first. When you mix cultural groups you increase the difficulty. When he's not at work, he's busy preparing or at conferences or studying, basically non existent.
Do not expect anything long term. But on the main page of exmormon Reddit on the side bar there is a link to a site with links to all the pages on LDS. This is legitimately how it is for most dudes in Mormondumb. It did not go well. And the longer you see her you won't be getting out of anything soon either.
I believe in temple marriage, and in the importance of those covenants. I'm sure their motives and good intentions are good - shame some female patience cause us the Doctors wives to have anxieties. But that parent-child relationship was bound to change anyways as you become an adult. As for the Mormon cohort he will be exposed to, I have two thoughts: And so far as I could tell, it worked and no one tried to drag her husband into the church. Mormons defintely play by a different rule set. Girls then struggle to reconcile degenerate popular culture with Mormon expectations. Having said that, I believe strongly that it takes a special individual who can remain active in the church and have a non-traditional marriage.
I look back the 13 years with such sadness and loneliness; I was extremely busy and had no time for myself or others. There is no way this will work out. If this is the case, she definitely can be reprogrammed and awakened. She will probably feel persecuted and attacked if you try. My boyfriend and I are both in medical school and it is so difficult to manage a relationship while surviving the class load. All of my siblings who married in the church 1 discussed getting married on the first date 2 were engaged within two months, and 3 were married within six months.