Tell her that you want your relationship with her, and her relationship with your children together to be separate from her religion with her god. He doesn't like to complain or talk about work too much when we're together so it really helps to hear from another resident just how crazy it is. I remember when I had my first son via C-section, our families came to the hospital with Champagne and celebrated, not even one asked about my surgery…. So I am at my dating prime. I knew a woman who married a man who converted to the church and she spent the rest of their married life telling him he was not good enough.
God Bless you and all the other doctors' wives that have transparently shared their experiences on your page. Maybe it was because I was so young when I made the choice, maybe it was because I was the oldest child in an extremely active family with parents that just expected me to be a shining example to the younger kids. Will he be happy knowing that you are giving up something of incredible importance to you. The church is very important to her. It is how she is programmed and it is a fundamental tenant of the religion. God roots for both our teamsвthe hopeful screw-ups and the straights. Play with fire if you don't fear getting burned.
But, as soon as the marriage happened, the Mormon spouse goes full on Orthodox and expects the non Mormon to comply. I forgot to mention that we've only been dating for 6 mo. You insult my husband who is as faithful as they come and does everything he can to spend time with us and to help out. I learned, growing up, that very principle, that you HAD to marry a member or your marriage was doomed. My religious faith saved my sanity but I still worry. And some of them are selfish and fully aware that as a doctor they can pull in hot females, many of whom will put up with being treated poorly. So, kudos to you for having such a wonderful relationship for so long and getting through step 1 and 2 and matching. But it is important to be ruthlessly honest with yourself about how you feel about it. We all know people who know that the gospel is true but they will not accept it.
There is rarely minute that goes by where I am not thinking about him in some way. Unfortunately, this has led to a culture of Mormon girls who are absolutely obsessed with Disney and even as adults dream of being Disney princesses. How church discipline works. Is this a sign of my own weakness. We planned the funeral around his work and call schedule. Much good luck, and keep us in the loop.