Do you schedule time in to talk and see each other. But I'm still thinking about him. I had many extremely hurtful things said to me, along with an intervention hosted by my married-in-the-temple-and-divorced grandmother.
It's unfair to assume that she feels that way without asking her. Know that you are playing a game aka dating mormon girls that has low odds of success. Not being an RM, they weren't really interested in me. In the interfaith marriages that work where one is LDS and the other is not religious, it only works out when the LDS partner is not fully a believer anymore. I'm not trying to be mean, just very clear. That my heavenly father hates my decision to marry my husband. We all wondered why should would go against such a blessing. When I acquired a personal testimony of the gospel as a teen, and made my own decisions regarding my faith, I felt very alone. Most of us were suckled on that teat too. I love him more than anyone else I've been with - but it takes a strong, patient woman willing to sacrifice a lot, to date a doctor.
All this actually needs is some stamps, pre-printed envelopes, and a few seconds to dash off a note, kiss the paper, and drop it in a mailbox. No easy answers here. When you try to explain to them why the church would not publish said info on their own website they get mad at you and tell you you're ignorant. I'm firmly in the RUN camp. My husband has the benefit of having his cake and eating it too. I have been a doctor's wife for 1 year now and we've been together for 7 years. Certainly not my husband. Any advice is greatly appreciated.
Among Mormons, 25 is practically an old maid. I haven't read every post like you probably havebut I've read a lot of them. There is no freedom to think, no freedom to speak your mind, and no freedom to do anything that 'the brethren' say not to. They are at the service of others at the expense of their family. The scenario where she refused to watch a possibly 'anti' documentary and wanted to watch church-sanctioned material sounds like a red flag.