It makes it hard to plan any sort of date. In retrospect, I believe I was being led to my current spouse. Read our Exit Stories from Mormonism. I feel he thinks we cannot be two masters in this boat and if I am this ambituous we may never have time to have and be a family. It's easy to be blind to deal-breaking faults when you are young and in love.
I am just short of living in a shelter because he has all of his pay going into a separate account for just him now and he has given access tot he account to his mistress. Life is suddenly wonderful, and you catch yourself smiling, humming, and happy all the time. Do whatever it takes to at least learn from your relationship with your Mormon crush. That being said, we have built something beautiful and good, have modeled loving responsibility and accountability to our kids, and I am certain I am with the man God chose for me. He is truly my soulmate and I shudder to think that if I had not chosen to marry outside of the church, I would not have had this life with him. I'm the overly busy person. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints teaches that all sexual relationships outside of marriage defined as the legal union between a man and a woman are sinful. This was hugely disappointing for him and created some very tense times. Before it started he got me a puppy that I maybe didn't really want to keep me company to help deal with the loneliness, so at least hopefully he understands. I found that it worked just as well.
I just started dating this guy and not only is he in the army, but also a doctor. They know that they are the best. Know there are a lot of Doctors who cheat though. This woman is a human being, not a caricature of a TBM. I realize that the answers to many of these questions may be different for every family, and that we need to continue to discuss them more as a couple as we continue to think about our future. I try to be understanding but I find myself getting so angry. Hopefully she could realize if she was born into one of these cults that also distrust apostates she probably wouldn't see through them either. And I'll disagree with the other person who responded to your comment.
I decided to do the mormon thing and just not think about it too much right now. That is her ultimate goal when it comes to dating and choosing potential mates. If your relationship has gotten very serious, your girlfriend will probably try to find agreement in your faiths. I can no longer spend more than 30 minutes in the sun.