Top Posts Do Mormons believe people can become gods. I'm not saying you shouldn't pursue the relationship, but I'd only recommend marrying her if she leaves the church because she discovers it's not true. I'm a single, financially independent woman. I have always been a very active, outdoor person. But realistically, if she is not open minded enough to even listen to someone who has a contrasting view of the church - how will she not continually discount you and your lack of beliefs. I'm sorry, but I don't pity you all. For the first time in my life, at age twenty-seven, I am in a relationship that is good and loving and serious enough that I believe it may lead to marriage.
Only you will know. Someday she may really regret everything, and miss you like crazy. He will have to wait outside if his children marry in the temple. This came about after many hours and many days of prayer, scripture study, going to the temple, receiving a priesthood blessing, and speaking with people I greatly trust my mom, especially. If you do attend parties like that, expect her to drink 7-Up and volunteer as the designated driver, and to be completely repulsed if you drink too much.
And even when they are home with you Expectations of time together is a mirage. There's definitely strength in kindred spirits. When I see my boyfriend hard at work, it also inspires me to improve and challenge myself in my own way. If not, it's better to find out now than to continue with something that isn't satisfying you. You guys are looking into this wayyyyyyy too much. Matching caused a lot of drama in our relationship.
I was lucky with my TBM. I don't know if it's worse for us: For me, it's been an inner battle with myself, should I follow my husband or should he follow me as I am one year ahead. Weirdly, one of the best sexes I ever had was with a lesbian who felt remorse and as though she had betrayed her fellow lesbians.