To those asking about pre-med boyfriends, mcat, first year, med school boyfriends: You never accomplish half what you set out to do, and taking practice exams is the most anxiety provoking experience. After about 3 months of his occasional interjecting of facts See that 14 year old girl. He knows how I feel about spending time together. For me this has been an opportunity to increase my love, tolerance, compassion and acceptance. Hi, I'm so glad to be able to enter this forum. We'll have to discuss that, now that I actually know some things about some things.
Before I met my husband I had dated quite a few members and some relationships were quite serious but I never felt right about it. Modest dressing is the best policy here. As someone born and raised in the church this has been very difficult to moderate and there is some social pressure to become more involved. There's this fantasy perpetuated in the religion that if you're good and pure enough, that any man you meet would eventually see the truth and join the church for you. Is it wrong that I feel guilty?. How will your spouse feel about that in 20 years. I realize that the answers to many of these questions may be different for every family, and that we need to continue to discuss them more as a couple as we continue to think about our future.
Good luck to both of you on working this out, and if you decide that interfaith marriage is something you can handle and your gentlemen turn out to be the right men for you, then welcome to the club. All I can say is, "WOW". All these are reasons to have some serious discussions. If this is the case, she definitely can be reprogrammed and awakened. She seems to be ok with that, and wants to continue our relationship, and also talks about wanting marriage and children, and raising those children to be mormon like her even if I'm not religious. Should I get rebaptized. Keep things going and see what happens. The best advice I can give is stay true to yourself. It is a demanding role being a wife to any man who works and has his own ambitions in the working world.
I know, I know, this is the last thing you want to hear. Am I sure I can handle the lifestyle. Most likely, the relationship isn't going to survive your differences in belief.